We Have A Bond Between Each Other.

Is that bond called ethereal vortex?
Does ethereal vortex carry only negative energies?
I don't want them to be negatives only.
I want to sense what he feels but I don't want those energies to harm me.

I feel his energy.
I feel his vibrations in my chakras.
Sometimes in my Anahata. This is what is happening right now.
Sometimes in my Manipura. And this is what happened yesterday.
I cannot feel what he feels directly but I feel his discomfort.
I cannot feel what makes him feel that way but I feel that he is not feeling good. He is furuious.
His vibrations are too strong and poisoned.

On 13th of February 2014, when we were at the hotel room, room number 327, at night on our own beds we were talking.
He was telling me some details about Karate.
While we were talking I saw his aura.
I just saw the layer of it and then thought his aura's color was yellow.
It was just a thought. I didn't see the color but sensed.
After we "seperated", I couldn't recognize his color. I couldn't remember what his color was.
Later, when my anger faded away, I remembered, it was yellow.
I cannot understand how his color could be yellow.
Okay, he seems energetic, self-confident and happy.
But he actually is not.
He is far from being energetic and happy, okay he is confident.
Maybe he reflects yellow, he makes his aura yellow. It is just a role.
Can someone change his aura's color unconsciously without even intending to change it?
Is this possible?